Book Review: Totally and Completely Fine by Elissa Sussman
When I first heard about Elissa Sussman’s Totally and Completely Fine, I was instantly drawn to the title—it resonated with that peculiar mix of optimism and uncertainty that mirrors life itself. Little did I know, this heartfelt novel would take me on a journey through the intricate layers of grief, love, and self-discovery, wrapping me in its warmth long after I turned the last page.
At the center of this beautifully woven narrative is Lauren Parker, a character so vividly authentic that you can’t help but root for her. As a widowed single mother navigating a small town filled with unsolicited opinions and echoes of her past, Lauren embodies the struggles many face after loss. She’s never been one to follow the rules; from her rebellious teenage days to her complicated life as the sister of a Hollywood star, she’s always danced to her own rhythm. Meeting Ben Walsh, a charming actor on her brother’s film set, sparks an unexpected connection that compels Lauren to confront her grief head-on and consider what moving forward truly entails.
Sussman masterfully constructs the story through dual timelines, juxtaposing Lauren’s vibrant past with her late husband, Spencer, against her present with Ben. This narrative technique adds richness to the exploration of love and how it evolves. I found myself reflecting on how love is not only enduring but can surprise us in the most unlikely moments. Their chemistry is electric, illustrating that while romance can be instantaneous, it’s the deeper awakening to oneself that makes it impactful.
What truly elevates Totally and Completely Fine is its exploration of themes beyond just romance. Sussman delicately unfolds the realities of single parenthood, the superficiality of small-town gossip, and the societal pressures women often navigate. Lauren’s journey is one of self-discovery; the poignant relationship with her daughter highlights the bittersweet process of rebuilding after loss. There’s a moment in the book where Lauren realizes that embracing life’s messiness is not just acceptable but necessary. It struck a chord with me, reminding me that perfection is merely an illusion we chase.
Sussman’s writing shines with authenticity, balancing humor with raw emotion. Her ability to draw laughter and tears in equal measure feels effortless. I often found myself nodding along or chuckling out loud, caught in the ebb and flow of Lauren’s adventures. A particularly memorable quote that resonated with me was when Lauren muses, “Life isn’t a straight line; it twists and turns, often leading us to the most unexpected places.” It encapsulates the essence of the novel perfectly.
Totally and Completely Fine isn’t your typical slow-burn romance; instead, it’s a profound exploration of love as a vehicle for healing and rediscovery. It’s contemporary fiction at its finest, weaving in wisdom and wit that leaves readers feeling seen, understood, and ultimately uplifted.
I wholeheartedly recommend this beautiful novel to anyone who has ever loved and lost, who faces the daily chaos of parenthood, or anyone craving a story that celebrates the beautifully imperfect journey of life. This book isn’t just a read; it’s an experience that lingers in your thoughts and emotions. Thank you, NetGalley and Random House/Dell, for giving me the opportunity to delve into this gem. I assure you, it’s one I won’t forget anytime soon.
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