Review: The Boy You Always Wanted by Michelle Quach

When I first dipped my toes into Michelle Quach’s debut, Not Here to Be Liked, I found the warmth and nuance of her writing so irresistible that I knew I had to keep an eye out for whatever she released next. Enter The Boy You Always Wanted, a charming exploration of family dynamics and the complexities of first love that not only met but exceeded my expectations. Reading this book felt like getting wrapped in a cozy blanket on a chilly afternoon—it’s soft, heartwarming, and slightly nostalgic.

At the center of this story is Francine, a spirited Chinese-Vietnamese-American girl with a big heart and an even bigger mission: to grant her grandfather’s last wish of having a male heir. In a plot that cleverly juxtaposes outdated traditions with modern sensibilities, Francine convinces her childhood friend, Ollie, to be ceremonially adopted into her family. While Ollie initially balks at her scheme, he soon finds himself drawn into both her plan and the feelings he has been trying to ignore.

What struck me most about The Boy You Always Wanted is how authentically Quach captures the hearts of her characters. Francine’s unabashedly caring nature contrasts beautifully with Ollie’s laid-back demeanor, creating a dynamic that feels vibrantly alive. Francine is the kind of protagonist who stands apart from the typical teenage mold, unafraid to embrace her passions while navigating the social complexities around her. Ollie, on the other hand, embodies that relatable longing for simplicity—a desire to go with the flow rather than disrupt the status quo. Their individual journeys and how they relate to each other brought be back to my own formative relationships, filled with that same blend of sweet awkwardness and genuine connection.

Quach’s writing style radiates warmth and sincerity. Her soft-spoken tone allows even the most complex emotions to unfold gracefully, making it easy to lose oneself in the pages. The pacing felt just right; there was no rush, allowing readers to savor each moment of tender realization as Francine and Ollie gradually come to terms with their feelings for each other. The humor infused by the side characters, particularly Francine’s unapologetically candid grandmother, adds delightful levity to serious themes, such as Ollie grappling with feelings of isolation in his own family.

One aspect I particularly appreciated was the representation within the book—Chinese-Vietnamese-American leads, along with a sapphic Indian-American side character, weave a rich tapestry that honors diverse backgrounds while delving into universal themes of love and loyalty. Coupled with a thoughtful portrayal of family love, even amid outdated expectations, Quach crafts a narrative that resonated deeply with me.

Ultimately, The Boy You Always Wanted is a heartfelt contemporary story about love in all its forms—familial, romantic, and self-love. The title itself carries a beautiful duality, representing both Ollie as Francine’s first crush and her grandfather’s long-held wish. If you’re in the mood for a thoughtful, soft YA contemporary that prickles nostalgia for first loves and family ties, I wholeheartedly recommend giving this a read. It’s a book that reminds us of the warmth found in connection, however imperfect. I, for one, can’t wait to see what Michelle Quach conjures up next!

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